Friday, March 03, 2006

submission

**chosen from a random word generator i found online**

if any of you know me (it doesn't have to be "biblically") you might know that part of my sexual fun is derived from domination and submission. i *kinda* sit on the submission side of this very wide spectrum... although i enjoy the power that comes with domination i sense, for me anyway, the whole adventure is that there would be no domination without submission and therein lies the true power.

some people fall into these generalizations: if you are dominant/powerful in every day life chances are you are quite submissive in the bedroom; conversely being submissive/docile in every day life can put you in a very domineering position behind the closed door. i think this can be true but of course there are varying degrees.

for me, as i mentioned above, i lean towards the submission side, but have been known on too many occassions to actually flip my role during the intimacy and take total control. i know what i like and how i like it and when i like. but i'd say on a percentage scale im 65% sub and 35% domme... i've always been attracted to powerful things: people in positions of power; firm, stern, strong and powerful men/women; and anyone that could deliver a lovely stinging spank! rawwrr! haha!

now this isn't to say that there always has to be a top and a bottom!! i mean, this is completely for shits and giggles!! i dont define my life by my sexual choices of the week... you'd run in fear if that were the case... ;)

mmmm... now im craving subway...