bailing

i hate people that bail... KEEP YOUR FUCKING PLANS!... when you say you're going to go somewhere and do something just DO IT!! don't call a few hours before you're due to meet other people for something that was planned and say "i'm not coming!" just fucking show up and do it. i *hate* it when people bail and leave others either hanging and having to cancel plans or just pissed off... i have this friend who is always cancelling or not showing up, always saying she'll be somewhere and either not calling entirely or calling just prior to something to say she's not showing up... its getting to be frustrating and down right making me pissy! its come to the point where its SOOOO frequent i have nick'd her "the 10 year old condom" as she has become about as reliable as one... ya know, i've even taken into account that it might be some sort of agoraphobia! she doesn't want to be in a crowded theatre with people eating popcorn, or kicking her seat or whatever. ok, i understand that. its not like i rush out to enjoy the nasty habits of People(tm) either... but she'll suggest going to a bar as an alternative??? WTF??? where do you find People(tm) that are more annoying than a movie theatre?... DUH! a BAR! maybe she needs alcohol to deal with People(tm)... meh... bailers are teh suck!